{"id":407,"date":"2010-12-31T05:54:45","date_gmt":"2010-12-31T13:54:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.matthewliberty.com\/?p=407"},"modified":"2010-12-31T05:54:45","modified_gmt":"2010-12-31T13:54:45","slug":"poor-poor-pitiful-me-or-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.threeadventure.com\/matthewliberty\/2010\/12\/31\/poor-poor-pitiful-me-or-not\/","title":{"rendered":"Poor Poor Pitiful Me&#8230;Or Not"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have recently been holding on to some \u201churt feelings\u201d over a friendship that once was super tight but has since dwindled considerably. My frustrations were directed toward him but then I realized maybe it wasn\u2019t his fault, it was possibly mine. I also remembered that many things in life do not last forever, and they don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n<p>There are a crap load of things that are moments, drops in the bucket; in which serve a purpose and then disappear. 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